Been told?

Received an anonymous STI notification? Find out why it’s important to get tested, what your next steps should be and how TellYourPartner can help.

Have you received a message from TellYourPartner?

If you’ve received a text notifying you that you may have been exposed to an STI from TellYourPartner.com, it’s because someone who recently tested positive wants to ensure you’re informed. TellYourPartner offers a discreet and anonymous service for individuals who may find it difficult to notify their sexual partners directly. This service allows them to responsibly share important health information via text.

Even if you’re uncertain about the message, regular sexual health check-ups are crucial for anyone who has had sexual contact. Some STIs show no symptoms, making testing the only reliable way to know your status.

Why have I been sent this message?

When someone is diagnosed with a sexually transmitted infection (STI), healthcare providers typically recommend they inform sexual partners from the past six months who may be at risk. This message is part of that effort to protect your health.

Wouldn’t I have symptoms if I had an STI?

Not necessarily. Many STIs do not show signs or symptoms, which is why regular testing is essential. The only way to be sure of your status is to get tested.

Will I definitely have an STI?

No, receiving a notification doesn’t mean you definitely have an STI. It’s simply a precautionary measure. Testing will confirm whether or not you have contracted an infection.

Who sent the message?

The message was sent by someone who recently tested positive for an STI and used TellYourPartner to notify their partners. The service allows them to send these messages anonymously, without revealing their identity or personal information.

Shouldn’t people who send the message be required to identify themselves?

Research indicates that individuals are more likely to inform their sexual partners about an STI if they can do so anonymously. Our service is designed to encourage responsible communication while respecting privacy.

What if I think I am being pranked or harassed?

We take misuse of our service seriously and apologize if you believe someone has used it inappropriately. If you suspect that you’re being pranked or harassed, you have the right to report it to the police. TellYourPartner will cooperate fully with any police investigation.

We encourage all users to act responsibly and use our service for its intended purpose. If you wish to block your mobile number from receiving messages from this website, you can do so directly here. Should you need to unblock your number, please contact us via email, and we will assist you with the process